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Friday, March 24, 2017

सीखने की सोंच

Rajeev Ranjan March 24, 2017 Hindi Poems , 3 Comments

दोस्तों शायद ये मेरी पहली ऐसी कविता है, जो जीवन में सीख देने के साथ -साथ एक भावनात्मक व्यंग भी है | ये कविता मैं ऐसे लोगों को समर्पित करता हूँ जो संकुचित विचार के होते है और किसी भी चीज को अलग-अलग तरीकों से सोचने के बजाय अपनी खुद की कुंठीत मंशा को ज्यादा तवज्जो देते हैं | दोस्तों ऐसे लोग जीवन में तरक्की पसंद नहीं करते सिर्फ एक नकारात्मक समीक्षक कि भूमिका निभाते है, और आपके भी कार्य कुशलता को प्रभावित करते हैं, इनमे जलने कि भावना दूसरों कि थोड़ी सी भी तरक्की देख के जंगल में फैले आग कि तरह बढ़ जाती है | तो मैं यहीं कहूँगा ऐसे लोगों से सचेत रहें, सावधान रहें और जिंदगी में हर चीज से कुछ न कुछ अच्छा सिखाने कि कोशिश करते रहें |

बहरहाल इस कविता का आनंद लें और अपने विचार हमें जरुर बतायें |

सीखनें कि सोंच

मेरी सोंच मुझे मुबारक, तेरी सोंच तुझे मुबारक |

हो सकता है, मैं गलत सीख रहा हूँ ,

पर जो सीख रहा हूँ, अलग सीख रहा हूँ |

अब तू मुझे ये समझाये, मैं क्या सीख रहा हूँ |

तो मुझे लज्जा आये, क्यूंकि तेरी नियत का इतिहास सामने आए,

तेरे किये करामत मुझे याद आए |

तेरे सीखने में जरूरत ज्यादा नियत कम है |

मेरे सीखने में चीजों के लिए इज्जत है, अदब है |

फिर भी तू मुझे बोले कि तू गजब है |

न जाने क्यूँ मै सीखता हूँ तो तेरे जलने कि बू अआती है |

कोशिश तो सीखने कि तूने भी की थी,

पर तेरे सीखने में तेरी सोंच आड़े आ गई,

मैने सोंच सुधारी जिंदगी इसमें भी कुछ सीखा गई |

माना मैंने गलत से कुछ सीखा, पर मैंने उसमे से भी सिर्फ अच्छा सिखा |

गलत में तो तू भी था. अगर नहीं था,

तो पड़ना तो जरुर चाहता था |

ये बात दिल से पूछ याद आएगी कि तू क्या चाहता था |

हो सकता है, गलत जान तूने बीच में छोड़ दिया |

या अब भी सीखना चाहता है, पर चीजो ने तुझसे मुँह मोड़ लिया |

अगर चीजें अब भी है तो,

ऐ दोस्त नियत बदल बूरे में भी तुझे अच्छा दीखेगा |

अपने अन्दर चीजों के लिए कदर ला, इज्जत कर, उसे संभाल,

खुदगर्जी दूर भगा, थोड़ी इंसानियत जगा |

तेरी जलन ठीक हो जाएगी |

तू चीजों कि इज्जत करेगा, तो तू भी इज्जत पाएगा |

गलत लोगों में भी अच्छा नाम और इज्जत कमाएगा |

जब तू अपनी सोंच ऐसे बदलेगा,

हर चीज में कुछ ना कुछ सीखने को मिलेगा |

फिर तू अपने सीखने केि सोंच बदल पाएगा |

-राजीव रंजन

Monday, February 27, 2017

How to inspire manners into children ?

Rajeev Ranjan February 27, 2017 Personal View , 0 Comments

How to inspire manners into children ?

If one is having a proper manner then his appearance towards the outer world will always be effective. And if your appearance is effective then you can perform your task so smoothly . But one question always click to mind that how one can learn proper manner , now I would like tell that we can’t learn it by teachers, books or anything else. The only one way by which we can learn proper manner that is our parents and our family. Now the question is that how parents should make their ward to learn proper manner, for this the following point we can try to make them learn.

1. When entering the house greet your children with hugs and kisses. This should help develop their sense of love and mercy.

2. Be good to your neighbours and never backbite. Never speak ill of other drivers when on the road. Your children listen, absorb and emulate.

3. When calling your parents, encourage your children to speak to them. When visiting your parents take your children with you. The more they see you take care of your parents the more they will learn to take care of you.

4. When driving them say to school, don't always play albums or cds! Rather, tell them the stories yourself. This will have a greater impact - trust me!

5. Read to them a short story and even a scripture a day – it doesn't take much time, but very impactful in creating strong bonds and wonderful memories.

6. Comb your hair, clean your teeth and wear presentable cloths even if sitting at home and not going out for the day. They need to learn that being clean and tidy has nothing to do with going out!

7. Try not to blame or comment on every word or action they say or do. Learn to overlook and let go sometimes. This certainly builds their self-confidence.

8. Ask your children's permission before entering their rooms. Don't just knock and enter, but then wait for a verbal permission. They will learn to do the same when wanting to enter your room.

9. Apologize to your children if you made a mistake. Apologizing teaches them to be humble and polite.

10. Don't be sarcastic or make fun of their views or feelings, even if you "didn't mean it" and was "only joking". It really hurts.

11. Show respect to your children's privacy. Its important for their sense of value and self-esteem.

12. Don't expect that they will listen or understand the first time. Don't take it personally. But be patient and consistent.

13.Pray with them. Show them how to pray. Lead by example.

Friday, February 24, 2017

SHIV TANDAV STOTRAM

Rajeev Ranjan February 24, 2017 Articles , 0 Comments

SHIV TANDAV STOTRAM

On the auspicious day of Shivratri I want to share the hymns which is known as Shiv Tandav Stotram that was created by one of the biggest devotee of Lord Shiva whose name was Ravan. Perhaps, it was the best hymns by which Ravan make Lord Shiva to happy and Lord Shiva blessed him with tremendous power and knowledge. This version is in Sanskrit language and writing manner is Devnagiri but the person who are unable to understand this language can know about the Shiv Tandav Stotram by the video link shared below this hymns.

शिव- ताण्डव- स्तोत्रम्

जटा टवी गलज्जल प्रवाह पावितस्थले, गलेऽवलम्ब्य लम्बितां भुजङ्ग तुङ्ग मालिकाम् |
डमड्डमड्डमड्डमन्निनाद वड्डमर्वयं, चकार चण्डताण्डवं तनोतु नः शिवः शिवम् ||१||

जटा कटा हसंभ्रम भ्रमन्निलिम्प निर्झरी, विलो लवी चिवल्लरी विराजमान मूर्धनि |
धगद् धगद् धगज्ज्वलल् ललाट पट्ट पावके किशोर चन्द्र शेखरे रतिः प्रतिक्षणं मम ||२||

धरा धरेन्द्र नंदिनी विलास बन्धु बन्धुरस् फुरद् दिगन्त सन्तति प्रमोद मानमानसे |
कृपा कटाक्ष धोरणी निरुद्ध दुर्धरापदि क्वचिद् दिगम्बरे मनो विनोदमेतु वस्तुनि ||३||

लता भुजङ्ग पिङ्गलस् फुरत्फणा मणिप्रभा कदम्ब कुङ्कुमद्रवप् रलिप्तदिग्व धूमुखे |
मदान्ध सिन्धुरस् फुरत् त्वगुत्तरीयमे दुरे मनो विनोद मद्भुतं बिभर्तु भूतभर्तरि ||४||

सहस्र लोचनप्रभृत्य शेष लेखशेखर प्रसून धूलिधोरणी विधूस राङ्घ्रि पीठभूः |
भुजङ्ग राजमालया निबद्ध जाटजूटक श्रियै चिराय जायतां चकोर बन्धुशेखरः ||५||

ललाट चत्वरज्वलद् धनञ्जयस्फुलिङ्गभा निपीत पञ्चसायकं नमन्निलिम्प नायकम् |
सुधा मयूखले खया विराजमानशेखरं महाकपालिसम्पदे शिरोज टालमस्तु नः ||६||

कराल भाल पट्टिका धगद् धगद् धगज्ज्वल द्धनञ्जयाहुती कृतप्रचण्ड पञ्चसायके |
धरा धरेन्द्र नन्दिनी कुचाग्र चित्रपत्रक प्रकल्प नैक शिल्पिनि त्रिलोचने रतिर्मम |||७||

नवीन मेघ मण्डली निरुद् धदुर् धरस्फुरत्- कुहू निशीथि नीतमः प्रबन्ध बद्ध कन्धरः |
निलिम्प निर्झरी धरस् तनोतु कृत्ति सिन्धुरः कला निधान बन्धुरः श्रियं जगद् धुरंधरः ||८||

प्रफुल्ल नीलपङ्कज प्रपञ्च कालिम प्रभा- वलम्बि कण्ठकन्दली रुचिप्रबद्ध कन्धरम् |
स्मरच्छिदं पुरच्छिदं भवच्छिदं मखच्छिदं गजच्छि दांध कच्छिदं तमंत कच्छिदं भजे ||९||

अखर्व सर्व मङ्गला कला कदंब मञ्जरी रस प्रवाह माधुरी विजृंभणा मधुव्रतम् |
स्मरान्तकं पुरान्तकं भवान्तकं मखान्तकं गजान्त कान्ध कान्त कं तमन्त कान्त कं भजे ||१०||

जयत् वदभ्र विभ्रम भ्रमद् भुजङ्ग मश्वस – द्विनिर्ग मत् क्रमस्फुरत् कराल भाल हव्यवाट् |
धिमिद्धिमिद्धिमिध्वनन्मृदङ्गतुङ्गमङ्गल ध्वनिक्रमप्रवर्तित प्रचण्डताण्डवः शिवः ||११||

स्पृषद्विचित्रतल्पयोर्भुजङ्गमौक्तिकस्रजोर्- – गरिष्ठरत्नलोष्ठयोः सुहृद्विपक्षपक्षयोः |
तृष्णारविन्दचक्षुषोः प्रजामहीमहेन्द्रयोः समप्रवृत्तिकः ( समं प्रवर्तयन्मनः) कदा सदाशिवं भजे ||१२||

कदा निलिम्पनिर्झरीनिकुञ्जकोटरे वसन् विमुक्तदुर्मतिः सदा शिरः स्थमञ्जलिं वहन् |
विमुक्तलोललोचनो ललामभाललग्नकः शिवेति मंत्रमुच्चरन् कदा सुखी भवाम्यहम् ||१३||

इदम् हि नित्यमेवमुक्तमुत्तमोत्तमं स्तवं पठन्स्मरन्ब्रुवन्नरो विशुद्धिमेतिसंततम् |
हरे गुरौ सुभक्तिमाशु याति नान्यथा गतिं विमोहनं हि देहिनां सुशङ्करस्य चिंतनम् ||१४||

पूजा वसान समये दशवक्त्र गीतं यः शंभु पूजन परं पठति प्रदोषे |
तस्य स्थिरां रथगजेन्द्र तुरङ्ग युक्तां लक्ष्मीं सदैव सुमुखिं प्रददाति शंभुः ||१५||

Tuesday, February 7, 2017

How to Stay Positive in Toughest Times ?

Rajeev Ranjan February 07, 2017 Personal View , 0 Comments

How to Stay Positive in Toughest Times ?

Sometimes the situation occurs in life which makes the people to unable to think positively and after that no one can live happily. This type of situation makes the people to get depressed even though the situation can be easily handed if they go with positivity to overcome the situation. By following these seven point one can stay positive even in toughest time which is as:-

1. Learn to reframe negativity. “The trick to positivity is not avoiding pessimism,” says Elaine Taylor-Klaus, a certified professional coach. “It's really about how quickly you can redirect your focus from negative to positive. Critical thinkers are going to see problems to be solved, but the ability to 'reframe' the conversation is the really important skill for people to practice.” She recommends getting into the habit of acknowledging negative thoughts and then asking, “What else is possible here?” This can guide you back into a positive mindset more quickly.

“Bottom line: Negativity happens,” she says. “Positivity is a choice, and the quicker you learn to reframe, the more time you'll spend in a positive space. Then, over time, the more likely you are to turn directly to a positive interpretation of events.”

2. Ask yourself if this will matter a month or year from now. Sometimes things seem crucial AF in the moment, but might be inconsequential even just a few days after that. Just think about high school drama. “When we can leave the past behind and even know in the present moment that this feeling won't last, it can help to remind us that time heals and life goes on,” explains Sharon Stokes, life-fulfillment coach.

3. Give back. Volunteering is an amazing way to change your entire perspective, says Lyssa Menard, a clinical health psychologist, founder of Strategies for Change and assistant professor at Northwestern University's medical school. “There are many organizations that don't require an ongoing commitment, so sign up for an event that's meaningful. Research shows that giving to others is one of the quickest routes toward happiness. While happiness and positivity are different, they're correlated,” Lyssa says.

4. Role play to be more objective. Playing a little mind trick on yourself can work wonders, says Lori Scherwin of Strategize That, a career coaching service. “We're often better at helping others than ourselves,” she notes. “Make the situation more objective and less personal to you. For example, consider if it were anyone else in the situation (like your best friend, partner or colleague). How would you see the same 'problem?' What advice might you give them to get out of it?” she asks. This will help you shift from being super hard on yourself to more objective, and most likely, more positive.

5. Make changes to things that are within your control. Spending time worrying about something that you can't change isn't really worth the effort. Instead, “Focus on areas where you have agency,” suggests Holly Burton, a career coach for women in male-dominated industries. “You may be stuck in a role you don't love at work, but you could probably work a few extra hours a week and take on a project that interests you. You could also schedule some proactive meetings with your boss to make an action plan to develop the skills you need to make a lateral move,” she says. In most situations, whether they're career-related or not, it's possible to take actions to make things better for yourself.

6. Practice radical acceptance. Jasmine Powers business and goal coach, suggests trying out the idea of radical acceptance, which is basically accepting the things you cannot change, even if they're not right or you don't agree with them. She explains: “If you're looking to buy a white sedan, you start to notice all the white sedans on the road because your mind is focused on that. In the same way, we often affect our experience because of focusing on good or bad. By working to be mindful of positive things and being extremely grateful for even seemingly insignificant things, we'll notice even more things to be grateful for.” Another mind trick for the win!

7. Try this gratitude challenge. Adwoa Dadzie, a career strategist and HR executive, has a seven-day happiness challenge that's definitely worth a try. First, journal about one event each day for seven days that made you feel happy and/or thankful and include the specifics of why it made you feel that way, going deep into the details. Second, send one random thank you email or text to someone each day, either personally or professionally. This message should include what they did and why it's worthy of the shout out. Detailed gratitude journals are proven to improve your life satisfaction, so try to stick to a gratitude practice, even in the good times!

Monday, January 16, 2017

English, According to View of Shakespeareacc

Rajeev Ranjan January 16, 2017 My Views , 0 Comments

English, According to View of Shakespeare

While certainly noted for his rhythm, meter, and themes, perhaps Shakespeare’s strongest influence on the English language was his diction. Scholars estimate that Shakespeare used at least 20,000 words in his work overall, and that he coined about 1,700 of those words. While many scholars are quick to point out that Shakespeare’s contribution to diction in this respect is commonly misunderstood—as some of his words and phrases may have simply been products of the time—it’s undeniable that Shakespeare maintained a degree of linguistic variety and innovation unmatched by his peers. Thus, he is credited with coining, or at least popularizing, many words and phrases we still use today. Take a look at a selection of these popular terms and their sources.

Ø “All the world’s a stage”

Ø “Let slip the dogs of war”

Ø “Double, double toil and trouble”

Ø “Fashionable”

Ø “For goodness’ sake”

Ø “In my heart of heart”

Ø “Knock knock! Who’s there?”

Ø “Livelong day”

Ø “Seen better days”

Ø “Wear my heart upon my sleeve”

Ø “Jealousy is the green-eyed monster”

Ø “Be-all and the end-all”

If we ponder over the above phrases we can see that these are familier to us , and we can say that these all were invention of Shakespeare because these phrases were used by him firstly in his story or novel like Hemlet and some drama scripted by him, which denotes the dominance of Shakespeare over English language and as a subject too.